This is Janice and she is my best friend. We are as different as night and day and we are the same as two peas in a pod.
She is short and I am tall. She grew up on a farm in Kansas; I grew up all over Colorado. She is the oldest girl in her family; I am the baby of my family. She has lived numerous places around the country; I have always lived within 75 miles of where I was born. She has brown hair; I have blond. She is outgoing and can strike up a conversation with anyone; I am shy until I get to know people. She lets unimportant stuff roll of her back, I obsess about everything.
We both love to play in the dirt. We both sew (she is better than I am). We both bake (she makes perfectly round cookies). We both do crafts. We both became Lutherans through marriage. We both love to play games. We usually order the same things from a menu - with the same changes (please substitute fruit for tomatoes; grilled chicken, dressing on the side).
We say we were raised by the same mother. There are people who say we share a brain. Our names are usually said as it it was one "HelenandJanice". We never run out of things to talk about. We once drove 9 hours to Kansas talking the whole time and then stayed up until 1 am talking some more. We kept others at a retreat up because they could hear us laughing through the walls. We were called out at a Pampered Chef party because we were talking and laughing ("You need to pay attention to this- its important!").
She goes along with my crazy ideas, never complaining, never rolling her eyes, never saying "this is another fine mess you have gotten us into". She knows when I am down, she knows what to do and say to make things better. Or at least get my mind off it. She is a warm, caring, sweet, funny person who I am so lucky to call my friend!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JANICE!
Oh, by the way, did I mention she is older then me (by most calendars)? Six months and six days.
5 comments:
What a sweet, sweet tribute to your friend. I have a friend like that. Sometimes women say their husband is their best friend... and I just can't help but think they are missing out on something. Do you know what I mean? My hubby is so many things to me, but he never has laughed with me until we have to run to the bathroom or snorted out of control type laughing, and a few other girlfriend things I could mention.
Awwww...how sweet. There's just nothing like having a real, true, bestest girlfriend! Happy Birthday Janice!
Hugs!
Kat
That's awesome. However, I'm positive that you are a better cook. You make pretty much the best food ever. You for sure make the best posole. No question.
CLE
I've been so busy I haven't checked your blog for a few days. That was so sweet and yes you made me cry. Thank you for being such a dear, wonderful, sweet friend who is always so thoughtful and caring.
I have a best friend like this. I always said that if I ever had a daughter, she'd be named Amelia after her. She's the closest thing I've ever had to a sister. How lucky we are to have friends like Janice and Amelia!
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